First Steps, First Words:
The Ultimate Guide to 1–2 Years
Watch your toddler grow from first steps to first sentences! This is your complete, science-backed guide for a year of discovery, learning, and big emotions.
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Toddler Milestones: 1-2 Years
Your child is on the move! This year is all about exploring the world, learning words, and developing a personality. Track their amazing progress below.
Wobbly Walkers & Curious Hands: 12–18 Months
Brain Booster: The “Fetch” Game
Ask your toddler, “Can you bring me your cup?” or “Where is the ball?” and celebrate when they bring it. This builds receptive language and motor planning skills.
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Tiny Explorers, Big Feelings: 18–24 Months
Brain Booster: The “Helper” Role
Involve your toddler in simple chores like putting their own clothes in the basket. “Helping” develops a sense of competence and the ability to follow directions.
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Your Toddler Life Toolkit
The second year brings big new challenges and joys. Here are science-backed tips for navigating tantrums, picky eating, and changing sleep patterns.
Managing Tantrums
Tantrums are a normal sign of an overwhelmed, developing brain. Your child isn’t giving you a hard time; they’re having a hard time. Your calm is their calm. Stay close, keep them safe, and label their feelings: “You are so mad the block fell down.”
Picky Eating
Fear of new foods is a normal developmental stage. Your job is to offer a variety of healthy foods; their job is to decide what and how much to eat. Avoid pressure. Keep offering tiny portions of new foods alongside their favorites. It can take 10-15 exposures!
Toddler Sleep
Around 15-18 months, most toddlers drop from two naps to one. This can cause temporary sleep disruptions. A consistent, calming bedtime routine is more important than ever. Most toddlers this age need 11-14 hours of total sleep in a 24-hour period.
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Brain-Building Play Ideas
Play is how toddlers learn best. These simple, fun activities are perfect for building your 1-2 year old’s brain and body.
Stair Climbing
Supervised stair climbing (crawling up, sliding down backwards) is a fantastic way to build gross motor skills and coordination.
💪 Motor SkillsShape Sorters
A classic for a reason! Shape sorters teach problem-solving, shapes, and hand-eye coordination.
🧠 Thinking“I Spy” with Objects
Say “I spy… a blue cup!” and help your toddler find it. This builds vocabulary and listening skills.
🗣️ LanguageAnimal Sounds
Look at a book with animals and make the sounds together. “The cow says MOO!” This is a fun precursor to real words.
🗣️ LanguagePush and Pull
Give them a toy to push (like a small cart) or pull on a string. It helps them practice walking and balance.
💪 Motor SkillsSimple Pretend Play
Use a toy phone to “talk” to grandma or pretend to drink from an empty cup. This is the beginning of imagination!
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Join the Group NowWhen to Talk to a Doctor
You are the expert on your child. While development varies, trust your instincts. If you have a concern, it’s always worth asking a professional.
By 18 Months, check in if child:
- Isn’t walking yet.
- Doesn’t point to show things to others.
- Doesn’t have at least 6 words.
- Doesn’t notice or mind when a caregiver leaves or returns.
By 24 Months (2 Years), check in if child:
- Doesn’t use 2-word phrases (e.g., “drink milk”).
- Doesn’t know what to do with common things, like a brush, phone, or spoon.
- Doesn’t follow simple instructions.
- Walks unsteadily or only on their toes.
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Book a Free, Confidential ConsultationToddler Myths vs. Scientific Facts
Parenting comes with a lot of advice. Here’s what science says about some of the most common toddler challenges.
This is an evolutionary trait that protected early humans. The science-backed strategy is repeated, low-pressure exposure. Continue offering tiny portions of new foods alongside their favorites without forcing them to eat it. Your job is to offer; their job is to decide.
A toddler’s prefrontal cortex (for self-control) is very immature. They aren’t giving you a hard time; they’re *having* a hard time. The best response is to stay calm, ensure they’re safe, and offer comfort (co-regulation) to help their system calm down. You can still hold a boundary (“We can’t have cookies now”) while being empathetic (“I know you’re sad”).
When your toddler points and grunts, they are communicating! Responding with words (“Oh, you want the red ball!”) teaches them the vocabulary they need. If they say “car,” you can expand it: “Yes, a big blue car!” This technique, called language modeling, is proven to accelerate speech development.
You Are Your Child’s Expert
If something doesn’t feel right, or you want reassurance, reach out. Your instincts and love matter most in this year of incredible growth!
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